Sex
on Valentine's
Hi
guys!
Valentine's
day is upon us..... so of course I'd like to talk to you guys about
everyone's favorite subject.... sex. (Look, I know everyone's
favorite subject is actually candy.... but I don't know anything
about that!)
A
lot of you young ladies and gentlemen are considering having sex for
the first time and you want it to be special.... what's more special
than Valentine's day right?
But
choosing a holiday is really not much of a plan. If you're having sex
with the right person, at the right age and for the right reasons
then basically every day is already Christmas, if you see what I
mean.
Let
me just ask you this.... if it weren't Valentine's day would you
still be considering it? If the answer was a resounding, “No.”
You might want to reconsider your current position on the matter (pun
fully intended!)
Let
me ask you this guys, how much do you enjoy sleep? If you end up
pregnant you will never have time for sleep. I was 23 when I had
Sarah and I still wasn't ready to be a parent. I figured she would
just cry continuously for the first month or so like all babies will.
BUT I WAS WRONG WASN'T I? My daughter had colic and unknown to me for
years... a brain-mass. She didn't recover until she was 9 years old.
Could you deal with that? Loving a baby with all of your soul and
then learning that not only does it not ever get easier to become a
parent, but also that the kid is mortal? A lot of you will say “Well
that won't be a problem for me. I'm using birth control.” Think
again. If birth control worked 100% of the time half the people on
this earth wouldn't be here.
Ladies
if you get pregnant he also can leave.... don't think he can't. Men
can leave even when they're married if they so choose. Guys please
don't think that leaves you off of the hook. All it takes is one form
filed and a paternity test to ensure that every penny you make until
the child turns 18 is taken. Hell don't think the government won't
take all of your tax returns either.... nothing gives a DA more
pleasure than closing a child-support case and if that means jail
time in order to get you to pay.... well thems the brakes.
So
now perhaps you are thinking, “Then I just won't even use a rubber
because they don't work any way.” That my friend would be a really
ignorant stance if you don't mind me saying. Are you aware that today
one in four teens has an STD or STI. Did you know that young people
ages 15 – 24 account for 50% of the new sexually transmitted
infections. That is counting all age groups even though teens make up
only 25% of the sexually active community. What that means is that
teens are more likely to catch an STI (sexually transmitted
infection) than any other group. It would be safer to stick your
genitalia in a bear trap!
Again
sex doesn't make you “in love” You are or aren't. Sex doesn't
make you “all grown up.” You are or you aren't. The only thing
sex makes you... is sexually active. Any decision you make about sex
today could become a permanent consequence. Isn't the rest of your
life valuable enough to you to give it one more think through? Just
sayin'
That's
my side of it,
Angel
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