Dear readers,
I wrote this book to help open
disscusion between parents and their children on some possibly
otherwise uncomfortable topics. Among the topics discussed are
suicide, teen sexuality, divorce, abuse and sexting among others. As
a parent, I believe that any parent who believes that their child is
“above it” takes the dangerous chance that their teen may become
a statistic.
My book entitled “Snapshots from
Home” is a collection of stories, written in the form of
micro-minis. In other words, each story will be six or less pages in
its entirety. This book was written about real issues that face teens
today. It is blunt to the point of being haunting. As a writer I feel
that stories should be haunting. That is because I personally find
that it is only when I am haunted that I try to rectify a situation.
In addition, .I attempted to create each story in such a way that the
reader not only gets emersed in the issue at hand, but is also left
to feel as if they just had a conversation with a friend in trouble
and actually wants to help resolve that issue.
. Being able to trust each other enough
to communicate is usually what helps us resolve our problems.. I am
sincerely hoping that through this book I might be able to give kids
a few tools to do that with. Because feelings of isolation and of
being misunderstood tend to be the thing that gets kids into trouble.
Whereas, the words, “I am not alone” are quite empowering.
I wanted to write short stories all my
life, but I was far too long-winded. It took me years to get to the
point where I was in a place to actually just tell the story instead
of chasing rabbits. What gave me the idea for this story collection
was believe it or not... eavesdropping. Let me explain.
My daughter never strayed far from the
living room, as I have a disability and she worries too much. So
every day I would set out a huge buffet of snacks so that when she
brought her friends home they would stay a while. This worked beyond
my wildest dreams. I must have had thirty kids a day in my living
room. Perhaps it was a bit tasteless, but I eavesdropped on a lot of
conversations. I found that most of my daughter's friends either felt
they couldn't talk to their parents or were clueless as to how to
broach the subject that they were having trouble with.
This gave me the idea to write a book
that kids or parents could use to open a disscusion, without implying
that they themselves had done something wrong. Why? Because these
teen conversations showed me that kids aren't bad. They are just as
curious now as they were when they were three. Most, in the end, did
not go to their parents. I wanted so to find a way to comfort them
and answer their questions.... and the next thing I knew, I was
writing!
This book is written from the
veiw-point of troubled teens. I tried very hard to be empathetic
enough to put myself in the place of the character. To me that is the
only way that these stories would become real to the reader and very
easy to utilize. A writer friend of mine, Bear Jones, had already
been published and helped me to “get to the point”. This was very
important as I know most kids really don't like reading anything too
long. I extend my heart-felt personal gratitude to him. And I hope
the reader will as well.
If you are still thinking, “Not MY
kid”, lets look at a few statistics. Did you know that one in five
teens has used illegal drugs? By the 8th grade 29.5 percent of
adolecents have consumed alcohol. Each year one in four teens will
contract a sexually transmitted disease. We as parents have an
important choice to make with our kids every day of every year. We
can condemn them OR we can try keeping the lines of comunication
open. At these staggering and veritably terrifying rates, even if
it's not your child... then it is someone they're talking to at
school.
Every one of the teens that I allowed
to read one of these, as I was writing, liked what they read and
found something that they could relate to. They especially liked how
short the stories were. As one young man said, “If it's too long
then it's homework. And I ain't trying to do no homework.”
In my life I have discovered two great
truths! The first is that we are never too young to end up in
trouble. The other is that we are never too old to lend a helping
hand. That is the reason I wrote this book, in order to extend my
hand to you and yours. And I sincerely hope it helps!
Thanks for listening,
Angel Dunworth
hi angel. great blog!
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